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What if my ex-spouse does not pay child support?

On Behalf of | Dec 18, 2025 | Family Law

Raising a child is one of the most expensive responsibilities a person can have. From groceries to school shoes, the costs never stop. Child support aims to share this financial load fairly between parents. When an ex-spouse stops paying, it isn’t just an annoyance between adults; it directly hurts the child’s quality of life. 

In New Jersey, support payments are a court-ordered obligation. If your ex has stopped paying, you should know that the law is on your side, and the state has powerful tools to ensure your child gets what they are owed.

Enforcement actions in New Jersey

New Jersey takes non-payment of child support very seriously. Here are the common methods to enforce these orders:

  • Wage garnishment: This is often the first step. The court orders the parent’s employer to deduct the support money directly from their paycheck before they even receive it.
  • License suspension: The state can suspend the non-paying parent’s driver’s license, professional licenses and recreational hunting or fishing licenses.
  • Tax refund intercept: If the parent is expecting a tax refund from the state or federal government, the court can order the interception of that money.
  • Credit reporting: Significant unpaid debt can damage your ex-spouse’s credit score, making it hard to get loans or housing.
  • Arrest warrant: In severe cases where a parent ignores court dates and refuses to pay, a judge can issue a warrant for their arrest.

These actions are not meant to be vindictive; they are meant to be effective. The goal is to make it more difficult for the parent to avoid paying than to simply make the payment.

Protect your child’s future today

If the checks have stopped coming, you do not have to figure it out alone. You have options. Talk to a family law attorney who can help you understand the best way to move forward. With their help, you can take legal action so your child’s financial needs are met.